Haha.
Well, first of all, depending on whether you have the half recast CMs for your bigger blade specials or not, I suggest putting up Artful, Graceful, and Nimble Strike.
What many people don't realize is that these actually do more damage over time for less power (If you do not have the half recast.)
On my toolbar I keep.
Nimble.
Artful.
Graceful.
Bite.
Harmony.
Resonant Blades.
Symphonic Blades.
Harmonic Blades or Anthem depending on whether I have a shaman or not.
Power Groove.
Power Twist.
Now see, I don't have the half recast CMs, and the majority of my damage comes from my quads.
If I am grouped with a shaman, I can constantly hit every special as they come up, but if I am not and have to keep anthem up, I may have to lay off the symphonic or resonant blades for a minute or two I usually do all first four specials from the first bar, then one big special, then when the first four are up, do them and one big special, etc.
And for the record, my sta is usually around 460, and agility probably not over 300 during grinds, and I only go oom on children of Xrag, meanwhile I could equip more, or maybe even keep my sta / agi gator buff up, bleh, no need to.
And I see Singingtard added in gear / stats, so I guess you may want some advice on that too? I dunno.
As for gear, it is hard to recommend gear, because each character needs different pieces depending on their build, but if it helps, I use the following:
Fungus covered sash (Or something like that) - Belt - Gives some str, decent amount of dex, aswell as HP max and maybe some other stuff.
Etheric Greaves / boots - Some dex I think, aswell as nice HP max.
Ssslithar gloves or Gloves of Melody - Depends on gear, both give nice HP max, but melody gives sta / agi, where as Ssslithar give agi / dex I think. Both give AR also.
Firesong Chestguard - Just wear it because I am maxed on str / sta / dex, and it has decent HP max, and possibly some agi.
Bracelet of Holding x 2 - sta, agi, dex, nice HP max, AR too.
I usually don't wear a helmet, cause my stats are maxed without it, and they look gay, but if I do wear one, it's usually an obsidian splint helm, decent stats, decent HP max.
Earring of weaver x 2 - Dex, HP max, sta.
Froglok Signet ring - Dex, str, HP max.
Don't remember necklace, nothing special.
Weapons:
The bloodsabre (PoD weapon quest.) Nice dur, damage, and hp max, use it as a spare.
Ssslithar Katar - Nice Damage / dur, use it as a spare.
Earthshard - Decent stats / Damage, good dur, another spare.
Uzrathixius' Fang - Nice damage, ( 740), decent dur, gives 30 dex too. Another spare.
Katana and Wakizashi of Toxicity - Main weapons, nice 220 proc that goes off often, high dur, 715 damage, I consider them the best weapons for a DD in the game.