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#1 Dec 27 2004 at 3:55 PM Rating: Decent
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Oh no..I just realized this while XPing last night.

My guild sucks.

I've been a member for almost a month..we never go on any raids or do anything fun. Theres almost 100 members, but I've only seen up to 8 people on at once. On average about 2-3 people are on (including me)..umm...but..

I can't leave! These guys are helpful, and I've become really good friends with all of them. I feel that if I left I would be betraying them and I don't want to do that..but I want a more active guild..

What do I do guys?
#2 Dec 27 2004 at 4:05 PM Rating: Decent
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If they were your friends before they still will be if you leave. I left my last guild for lack of events the elders and masters need to keep up on those things to keep people if they dont then they should expect a small unhappy guild
#3 Dec 27 2004 at 4:14 PM Rating: Decent
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Eh..I guess..but I'll prolly stay with them until I get my lionwere.
#4 Dec 27 2004 at 4:16 PM Rating: Good
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If they were your friends before they still will be if you leave.


True, and it should be that way... but then, as in my case, they can turn on ye, and start talking **** about ye! Itz funny, how someone can be your 'supposed' friend, and be all two-faced like behind yous back, talkin a bunch o smackity-smack-****, but never saying **** to yous face!
As in my case, this went on for a few months till I choose to leave the guild, then, and then, did the real feeling come out to play! hehe... Yes, I was a good friend till we hit 60, and they felt they no longer needed a sha becuz of whatever!

Umm.... nevemind, use-to-be-friends are much like ex-wifes, yous need to just forget 'em and move on...

/end of rambling....
#5 Dec 27 2004 at 4:34 PM Rating: Decent
well, if its as bad as you describe join another guild and see if you can get your friends in also
#6 Dec 27 2004 at 4:40 PM Rating: Decent
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Sop, if I decide to stick with CLW as my remake server, we can just start a guild together.
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#7 Dec 27 2004 at 7:58 PM Rating: Good
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ive been in a few guilds that have broken up and some that ive left. i still talk to the old guildys. Jus say you wana try out other guilds. weve had a few of people do that in ours.
#9 Dec 28 2004 at 8:25 AM Rating: Decent
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I think alot of people get into guilds expecting to raid alot...and heres what i think of it all...raiding alot depends on the ratio to which you play...some guilds go on excursions once a week or maybe every other week....for those who play everyday and are already 60 and mcd its probably really "slow" compared to being someone who is level 45 and working to get to their epic and gets a change of pace because they can play about 3 days a week...get my point?

so i would find out things like how often the guild you would think about going into does "raids"...and where they have access to...but as for your friends...they truly will stay friends if you can tell them before just up and leaving why you want another guild...most understand it isnt personal...but it is harder to keep up with people who are technically "out of sight out of mind" so to speak...but i would try to see if anyone feels the same way and wants to think about going with you if you guys can find a guild who wants multiple enlistments...

my guild personally is 49+ epic done on new recruits...we want to know the person a little too...when i have a friend interested i just try to incorporate them into my guild groups when grinding...but as for raiding we have done some really fun things in spurts..its not everyday...and most are spur of the moment...but we are also understanding of the fact some are working still on leveling and mcing...it just means they miss out on the fun...lol

being that most of us do have a 60...we can at anytime form a good group to raid with...and usually about 10-20 on at a time like zizoe was saying about his guild...early mornings are usually the hardcores lol and about 5-6 at that time..lol but i do hope you find a place you like that is like family to you =0)
#10 Dec 28 2004 at 1:27 PM Rating: Decent
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Sop, if I decide to stick with CLW as my remake server, we can just start a guild together.


The Sop-Kas Experience!


Anyone thats a regular on CLW know if Shades of Grey is a good guild?

Ziz, (lol Ziz) whats the name of your guild?
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