well, nothin to say against grouping with your trolly friend, if he's really u'r friend. as we see in lotr, interracial friendships are possible also in fantasy worlds.
what i actually meant was, and maybe i did express myself not to clearly, that i'd just like to see a little bit, a tiny winy bit of role-playing in this game. i'm playing a troll, and all those people, whom i've never met before, r so nice. barbarians asking me if i need a new pieve of armor. elfs bowing low in fronta me. i mean, nothing against nice players. they are really a bless for the game, but shouldn't elves f.e. be terrified at first when a huge and, in their eyes, ugly troll crosses their way. i think they should start a conversation like: "hey what's a troll doing in an area like this? u smell like a baby-butt." the troll could just answer "we don't have clean water at grobb, not my fault."
or: "oh my god, don't eat me, i hope you've had breakfast today!" t's answer:" don't be afraid, paladin, i don't like human meat...". u know, sth smart. not just this all the time friendly questions and answers. i think thats boring. what r evil classes good for then? it's just harder to get arround in norrath. no, good & evil have to quarrel. of course, u could be a friendly delf, helping out everybody. but i think this takes a lotta sense outta the game. if u had a nice conversation as an evil class/race with a good one. no prob. maybe u 2 were running the same errand, and helped each other out. add him/her to your friendslist, and play with him u like to. but being nicely talked to by a good stranger (when u yourself r evil), just doesn't fit into the game. now that's just my opinion. don't blame me on that. have fun the way u like to.
concernig the "finding a group" prob: well there are actually, at least i guess so, much less people playing eqoa in europe than in north america. and most times it'S easy to meet people in good or evil only cities. look for groups in neriak or grobb only. i'm sure u'll find some players. also, there are enough human nekros in freeport. so finding an all evil or all good group, is not as tough as u guys claim it to be.