You might not have been around at the time, and I know Dyadem wasn't playing with us. I hopped on over to Blackburrow, and shortly thereafter I never saw anyone on any longer. They were either hiding from me, or moved/transferred to another server.
I've taken a few breaks from the game, but that was over 3 years ago for the most part. And around this time last year I had to stop playing for a couple of months because of some real life crap. But I've been playing pretty steadily now for over 2 years. Not saying I won't ever take a break again, but right now there's no other MMOs out there that have my attention.
Anyway, log on Everfrost, /join Asylum, look for Enica (me), Gaftep (Dya) or Cyl. If I'm playing, that's usually where I am. I also have 2 toons on Freeport, one on Crushbone, and a ton on Test.