MMORPG gaming. It is something many of us enjoy and pour a great many hours into. We make friends, embark on grand adventures, obtain unique achievements be it gear or recognition and perhaps learn a little bit about ourselves along the way behind the avatars we create.
As we journey and grow stronger within the parameters of the game do we find ourselves becoming less tolerant? Do we somehow separate ourselves from reality to the point that we disregard that in front of the monitor/television is a human being whose heart for gaming beats just like yours? For all of those good times we experience there are bad ones as well. Particularly those involving words of malice, negativity that is used to belittle or make someone feel less of a person because either an in-game event has gone unsatisfactory or mistakes were made.
For anyone who has been on the receiving end of malice laced words you know well how it can make you feel. Especially if you honestly gave it your all and it wasn't enough. Perhaps you didn't watch all the latest videos or you mistook a critical step in pure hindsight. Regardless the feelings of defeat and low determination are real and the cloud of doubt in your own abilities has sapped your desire to continue playing because of a select few.
Duty Finder (DF) is perhaps a good example where this type of behavior has the greatest chance of coming forward. Often times numerous players will gang up on the player or players they feel were the weakest in the group . The blame has to lie with someone after all. Ironically in situations like this rarely will players try to coach or teach the mechanics they feel should be learned let alone bring forward any mistakes they've made themselves. Unlike a pre-made group it seems people are quick to forget that the convenience of DF comes at the cost of being matched with players that might not be aligned perfectly with your method of playing the game.
In a time where patience and empathy are skills practiced less and less and everyone seeks immediate gratification we could stand to be reminded that the highest item level piece of gear we just acquired is not the strongest thing. It's the words we use and the actions we take. Somewhere along the line for a couple of minutes when things don't go our way we forget why we enjoy online gaming and that the avatars we meet are not NPC's, or AI, but real people. For those who have experienced this first hand I implore you to not give in to the negativity. Do not let anyone deter you from the game you enjoy. Instead let it empower you to keep moving forward.
Best of luck on your adventures!