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#1 Oct 16 2013 at 7:36 PM Rating: Excellent
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Never really wanted to make a thread complaining but I really feel that the last few weeks have been the worst ever for me, I don't have any good delve gear and I cant get in any shouts to obtain any cos I don't have any of the gear in the first place, shouts are actually quite rare now and you can sit for hours without seeing a single one, and those are only done by one of three LS's shouting for a BRD SCH or MNK when one of their LS guys don't show up... its been like this for weeks now, there seems to be no hope for the average player.

6 months ago I felt like I had decent gear, but now i'm just pathetic, I have almost lost all enjoyment from the game, I cant achieve much, the gap seems so large, you either are in the click or you are not. Whats happened to the game I love?

I do fear for FFXI's future, this is the first time ive ever felt like this, I have got a level 90 empy weapon, and full +2 empy armour, I was ok 6 months ago, but now, I cant get in any shouts, I am laughed at and sneared at... I am basically worthless.

To be honest I don't think in 3 weeks time the November update will offer me what I would love it to, the chance for my weapon to be useful again with a stat boost, so I can enter fights to get better weapons etc... and improve my armour etc... cos if this next update fails me in that respect (and I really think it will) then theres very little point carrying on.

Never thought I would ever say that, and it pains me to.

There must be loads of other people out there like me, maybe a lot of them have already had enough, but im just stubborn and stupid and keep hoping things will change, but its not looking good.

You can merge servers if you want, but all that will do is mean more shouts of ''17/18 BRD 3-4 songs can I have it?''... or just more people AFK... or just more trains of tarus with unpronounceable names.

Sorry for ranting... feeling quite low right now, really need a lift, but not sure that its coming.

I do think the November update is make or break for many people, this is perhaps the most important update the game has ever seen, that's how I see it anyway.

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#2 Oct 16 2013 at 9:00 PM Rating: Good
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Ever think about leveling whm, brd, sch, or cor? Not to play full time but just enough to gear out a job you like to play. Lots of people (including myself) have leveled jobs to be useful and get into groups. If you don't have the experience to make your own groups. Or have the connections to get you into groups. You're clearly unhappy and not having fun. Why not level a job thats desired and be unhappy and not having fun with a goal that in a few weeks you'll be able to enjoy what ever job you want to play?

Edited, Oct 16th 2013 11:28pm by TikkaofLakshmi
#3 Oct 17 2013 at 12:32 AM Rating: Good
That advice seems to come up pretty often, but I do find myself wondering... where do you find information on how to be at least somewhat useful on those jobs? The forums here seem to be pretty dead now...

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#4 Oct 17 2013 at 12:40 AM Rating: Good
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You could always just buy wins for 35 million gil to get the KIs to gear yourself up, or play a different game like I'm doing right now.
#5 Oct 17 2013 at 12:58 AM Rating: Good
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Well, old play styles haven't exactly vanished, but the following is pretty much why people who bemoan Abyssea leeching and people not knowing their jobs by "EXPing properly" tend to be wrong: What you do will depend entirely on the event itself.

So, as a WHM, you'll want to look up mobs for a particular activity and learn what kind of damaging moves they do and when, as well as status effects you'd want to keep an eye out for. DDs will need to learn things to dodge, when to WS (or not), and so on. And ultimately, just because people say things like BRD, WHM, GEO, or COR are in demand doesn't automatically make them easier to play or even quicker to gear. There's also the age old trap of where once people know you have such jobs serviceable, you may never be able to play on your true loves as often as you'd like.

Anyway, the OP's issues seem reflective of the gap between pre-Adoulin content and the Delve gear ONRY mentality that plagues the base. It's why I clamor for more easily accessed bridge gear and more solo/low-man friendly activities without just slapping "new stuff" into the decaying content we'd done for years before. Bayld gear doesn't do it on the grind:reward scale. Skirmish isn't access friendly due to statue/cost requirements. Crafts are floundering because all the good gear are drops or currency exchanges. These aren't problems that simply changing your job will fix and I will continue to argue that forcing that suggestion will drive people away in frustration.

Unfortunately, the only thing the OP can hope to do is find nice people while maybe someday SE will get their **** together.
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#6 Oct 17 2013 at 1:01 AM Rating: Good
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The ffxiah job forums is a really good place to start.

http://www.ffxiah.com/forum/forum/83/jobs

Filling in healing/support rolls like that you don't need the best gear. But you do need your skills capped or near capped. Which could mean you might spend a couple days curing skeletons in Abyssea to level healing magic. Or doing equally mind numbingly boring things to level another skill.
#7 Oct 17 2013 at 7:32 AM Rating: Excellent
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TikkaofLakshmi wrote:
Ever think about leveling whm, brd, sch, or cor? Not to play full time but just enough to gear out a job you like to play. Lots of people (including myself) have leveled jobs to be useful and get into groups. If you don't have the experience to make your own groups. Or have the connections to get you into groups. You're clearly unhappy and not having fun. Why not level a job thats desired and be unhappy and not having fun with a goal that in a few weeks you'll be able to enjoy what ever job you want to play?


I've never known that to work. If you have the highly desired support job available, you're stuck with it. The job you love will likely never see the light of day again. If you dare to bring it out others will **** and moan about it.
#8 Oct 17 2013 at 10:32 AM Rating: Excellent
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I think I agree with Camiie on the job role here. If you play whm and you are good at it then chances are you will be stuck on whm. Pretty much everyone seems to have a whm job stuffed somewhere but they never play it and just play something else.

I think the lack of crafted and AH-able equipments that are equivalent to end-game rare/ex gear is probably the main reason for this gap. The few weapons that can be sold are exceedingly expensive into the tens of millions.
#9 Oct 17 2013 at 10:46 AM Rating: Good
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Camiie that is true in the linkshell experience. But the OP doesn't have a linkshell to do things with he's joining pugs.
#10 Oct 17 2013 at 2:13 PM Rating: Good
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Camiie wrote:
TikkaofLakshmi wrote:
Ever think about leveling whm, brd, sch, or cor? Not to play full time but just enough to gear out a job you like to play. Lots of people (including myself) have leveled jobs to be useful and get into groups. If you don't have the experience to make your own groups. Or have the connections to get you into groups. You're clearly unhappy and not having fun. Why not level a job thats desired and be unhappy and not having fun with a goal that in a few weeks you'll be able to enjoy what ever job you want to play?


I've never known that to work. If you have the highly desired support job available, you're stuck with it. The job you love will likely never see the light of day again. If you dare to bring it out others will **** and moan about it.
There are a few issues in play here.

1. Too many DD jobs to fill too few spots. This has been an issue pretty much as far back as anybody can remember. A typical Delve alliance will only have about 6 DDs. You'll want to have at least 2 MNKs for blunt damage, Formless Strikes, and Mantra. You'll want a DRG for piercing damage and Angon. That leaves only 3 slots for the rest of the DD. SAM is nice and versatile with strong slashing damage, non-elemenal damage, and even ranged damage. BLU brings magic damage and non-elemental damage. It's just really tough to get in as a DD when so many spots are spoken for. IIRC, WAR is your pet job Camiie. It's hard to fit a WAR into an alliance with such strict requirements (although in my linkshell we always brought a WAR because he was an excellent player and it wasn't worth bringing something else that was better on paper).

2. The gear has polarized the DD population. You either have Delve mega-boss gear or you don't, and you don't you're pretty much fighting a losing battle. If you don't have Oatixurs you have no hope of getting into a 1-5+boss group. People just won't invite you because there are enough players out there who have Oats already that leaders can be choosy. You can make up the difference with Skirmish weapons in theory, but the perception is such that you still won't be invited.

3. Unfortunately that means that you have to level something that is less gear-dependent to get your foot in the door so you can start accruing plasm and getting mega boss wins. In the past, I've recommended WHM, GEO, and COR. People have high standards for BRDs and if a 3-4 song BRD comes along you're not going to be invited if you only have 2 songs. However, unlike in my previous example, this kind of BRD is not common and ally leaders cannot afford to be as picky. You can also get in as a SCH stunner, and you can get by with skirmish gear, Apamajas II (still a lot of work even today), and relic +2 feet. Relic +2 legs are also a huge bonus. A good stunner will be remembered and you will be in high demand if you can get good at it.

To the OP, I would recommend to level a support or healing job so you can start getting your wins and building up your plasm. If you're unwilling to do that, then it's highly unlikely that you'll be able to acquire Delve mega boss gear unless you merc it. Another option is to simply just lower your expectations and goals. You don't need Delve gear to complete anything except Delve itself. Maybe Skirmish and Plasm weapons are enough to get you by in your daily gameplay.
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#11 Oct 17 2013 at 6:48 PM Rating: Decent
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what is a "3-4 song bard" ? im not too familiar with bard or endgame.
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Ba1dw1n wrote:
what is a "3-4 song bard" ? im not too familiar with bard or endgame.



Its a brd with a emp weapon. Allowing you to use more then 2 songs.
#13 Oct 19 2013 at 2:41 AM Rating: Decent
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Last I was on no one was doing any delve win/plasm shouts at all... are those back?

I did play BRD but don't have 3-4 songs, so even that was closed off in the few shouts I saw which had exclusively spots for DRG with a specific weapon or 3-4 song bards.
#14 Oct 19 2013 at 12:15 PM Rating: Excellent
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I did level COR to get inside Delve and I don't regret it, doubles as a Wildkeeper job too :P To be honest, levelling a support or healing classe changes the mood abit too, you get to see the other side of the coin ;) If you really wanna go DD, DRK/SAM/DRG/BLU can do really well with a skirmish+1 weapon augmented with a Verdigris stone+2 until you get some mega bosses drops since most of those weapons get higher base damage. Getting Skirmish 2 access ain't so bad, can use those login points to get some T3 body/helm parts and usually ppl ask for BLM/SCH/GEO to nuke the living daylights of those fights. I recently spammed Rala Waterways/Cirdas Cavers/Yorcia weald to get most weapons and 25/25 armor+shield of those fights, took me like 6 Cirda and Rala, 15 Yorcia at most and I actually made a profit too!
Just stick with it, since you have lvl 90 empy, could just grind some dyna for some quick cash to buy ilvl crafted weapons or merc a run or 2 to get enough plasm to get base armor and such too.
#15 Oct 19 2013 at 3:35 PM Rating: Decent
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Worst case, farm dynamis to buy skirmish pops, then once you get skirmish done, make your own shouts for Delve plasm farm or NM 1-5 to get 6-10k plasm per run. With a relatively good group, usually can get you lower tier KI done painlessly. Just have to keep going :p
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I just want to point out to people saying "oh just level a support job" other than BST (which I bemoaned being useless for groups but never expected invites on) my level 99 jobs (skilled/geared appropriate for grouping) were BLU, BRD and WHM.

I have never ever once played a DD in endgame. When delve first came out I was excited cause it seemed like I might finally get a chance to try playing a DD out - but I had to work for a month straight after the expansion released and I never caught up after missing the initial "zombie win" phase (even though I had a nice shell when I came back and they did get me a couple wins)

To be fair I found plasm farming as a BRD so boring/stressful that I didn't take full advantage of the short burst of time where I could get a lot of parties - I took a couple weeks off, came back, found my shell gone, all the shouts dead... and my friends list empty.

Now I don't have any incentive to come back. I didn't have an empy/megaweapon to get buffed... I have nothing to work towards... the game has moved on and left me behind.

Edited, Oct 19th 2013 6:26pm by Olorinus
#17 Oct 19 2013 at 7:25 PM Rating: Good
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OP is basically why I quit too, a few years ago. Everyone was getting 90 emps and I couldn't get in a group unless I fulltimed WHM for another year or so, which I wasn't willing to do. But none of my other jobs were desirable and they had no way of getting desirable.

I guess it's the price FFXI pays for having a straight and narrow gear progression instead of all that sidegrade stuff.
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Erecia wrote:
OP is basically why I quit too, a few years ago. Everyone was getting 90 emps and I couldn't get in a group unless I fulltimed WHM for another year or so, which I wasn't willing to do. But none of my other jobs were desirable and they had no way of getting desirable.

I guess it's the price FFXI pays for having a straight and narrow gear progression instead of all that sidegrade stuff.




That is the way it has always been. If you wanted into a good LS you either had to know someone or have support job and was willing to go to every event as such. Sure there was the ash and trash sky/dyna shells that took what ever they could get but that content was **** easy and if all else failed could just use body chunk or any other event you weren't locked into a max of 18 people. Really how is to day much different then back in the day when people never pug endgame cause pops took forever to build or you had to out claim people.

Merc wins are going for far less then 30 mil now on most servers could most likely get a toji win for 10mil and dibs on all the gear.

As far as support jobs go, if one were to go down that road do cor. Highly in demand easy to gear up and no magic skilling needed. If you can do a cor rotation which isn't hard. Set you sights lower do skirmish shouts pretty nice event good rewards with most are on par with plasma weapons and gear and some a some of it is better then plasma gear(and weapon if drg). BGwiki has a nice section on skirmish and had maps for the most popular Tiers.

As for the 3 to 4 song brds only, most groups will bend on that if they have been shouting for a long time and you can show them you have maxed march, understand how to do a brd rotation. You can win with three two song brds if you can do a fast brd rotation.


Edited, Oct 20th 2013 5:46am by RavennofTitan
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Got 3 Tojils win in a row last night and I even got to go DD since they were sufficient on backline! 1st run on Skirmish+1 GKT SAM and went MNK on last 2 since I won bid on Oats :P Just stick to it, you'll advance at some point!
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This here is one of the major reasons I left. I still miss the game, but more for Monstrosity. I might come back when the bigger updates for that drop just to see the chaos it causes :D
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#21 Oct 20 2013 at 6:14 PM Rating: Good
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RavennofTitan wrote:
That is the way it has always been.

Nah. Even relics, while great, weren't so ultra super gamechanging wow holy crap that you couldn't compete at all if you lacked one. There was certainly gear I wanted, but there was never one piece of gear I saw as a gamechanger. A competent player on a budget could do well enough in a merit party to be passably okay, have a good time, and still have a good enough impression to get invited again tomorrow if the opportunity arose. And there were so many paths to take during ToAU that one didn't have to take them all simultaneously, though I tried to since it was fun.

But, in introducing specific gear from a specific event that is relatively accessible, they removed all that. Old school Nyzul gear wasn't that great, but it was still okay enough to justify doing Nyzul. But now there's no point in doing anything but Delve.

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And nyzul and maybe salvage but never seen many pug shouts for it was the only endgame events that you could pug. Everything else you needed a LS, if you wanted a LS that did more then sky and dyna you needed a good LS and those you needed great gear to get in on a DD job only char. So really I see it no different then back in the day instead of sky and dyna for the people that refused to level a support job to get into a good LS you have skirmish and skirmish 2.

A good player can still do that and do it well but they have to sell them selves. Drg is the easiest to sell if you know the job. With a skirmish +1 polearm(even the base weapon was far better the the plasma polearm) augmented relic +2 body and hands would be more then enough for a boss run. But they have to sell it. They have to explain that jump under spirit surge effect adds a def down effect and with the extra 20 secs from the body allows you to get two of them in get lucky with wild card and you can keep def down on Tojil almost the whole fight if the rest of the ally is not retarded and refuse to brd/cor swap if it is a pug(good LSs can get away with out it but pugs are pugs). Same goes for 2 song brds.

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RavennofTitan wrote:
And nyzul and maybe salvage but never seen many pug shouts for it was the only endgame events that you could pug. Everything else you needed a LS, if you wanted a LS that did more then sky and dyna you needed a good LS and those you needed great gear to get in on a DD job only char. So really I see it no different then back in the day instead of sky and dyna for the people that refused to level a support job to get into a good LS you have skirmish and skirmish 2.



That's part of the problem. This isn't "back in the day" anymore. People have moved on from the idea that their lives should revolve around FFXI. They don't have the free time to apply to linkshells, to go to scheduled events every night to keep their spot. They don't want to log in and try to argue with people who don't understand the game as well as they do that their drg is a good job to invite when the other person just takes someone else and says "Party Full".

The one thing, the ONLY thing this game couldn't afford to do was to become exclusionary again, and it's the only thing this director has succeeded in doing.
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There is a way around Delve. However since its far and between to see a Wildskeeper Reive starting up. You'll need at least 1 ki from any wildskeeper reive win to enter delve, and the bee is the easiest. The forefront gear piecemealed with some Neo Nyzule parts will get stats to 106 ish. Monks still hotswap Thaumas coat in and out between melee and weapon skill damage for example. Blm can get a boost with Voay staffs untill they farm Hagondes parts or Delve parts.

Then start farming weapons in Skirmish Rala and Cirdas. People still shout for them and depending on level and setup can be ran through with 5 people. Skirmish Yorcia is around 110 ~113 in content level Whm's can manage healing blm's can get into trouble without all that mab. Unless your a second blm, healer or support. Stick with teir 1 untill you collected enough skirmish armor, wings, and use the random KI to upgrade those farmed skirmish weapons to +1 as soon as you get it (can only hold 1 KI at a time).

Give it enough time to farm and your +1 weapons and gear set will be around 113. From there you can get into Delve boss runs they will still take mnks with Rigors or Ninzas +1 (provided the level or quality of augments on the gear). Sch kinda needs to have twilight cloak for impact, and took the time to get a good fastcast set and be on the dime for stun rotation on Tojil. Delve 1~5 + in Morimar is the easiest provided you are familiar with Volitile Matamata farming and know never to use formless, any magic dmg, or skill chains on the raptor. Even if you fail on Tojil you'll get the Ki's to unlock most of the delve gear in that area and free loot on what the NM's drop. If you defeat Tojil you get it's KI and access to all the loot via NPC, and around 70k~73k or so in plasma. With 4 Tojil wins you stand a good chance to loot a weapon you'd need (h2h is kinda common), or can buy it from the npc. Once you get some boss gear you can move on to the Shark and Bee Delve runs and you're all caught up, and more than ready for the naakul in the next expansion area.


Edited, Oct 21st 2013 7:01pm by akudama
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