Unless you have the "staple" jobs of Drk/Mnk/War/Sam you're not getting invited as a DD.
Drg on occasion for Angon but otherwise forget about it.
Beyond this place of wrath and tears
Looms but the Horror of the shade,
And yet the menace of the years
Finds, and shall find, me unafraid.
It matters not how strait the gate,
How charged with punishments the scroll.
I am the master of my fate:
I am the captain of my soul.
Invictus -- William Ernest Henley