Forum Settings
       
« Previous 1 2 3 4 5 6 7
Reply To Thread

Delve is ruining friendships and relationships...Follow

#1 May 18 2013 at 5:09 AM Rating: Good
Scholar
****
4,511 posts
I've been doing Delve for quite a while now (got a bunch of weapons and most pieces of armor i was after by now) but it's driving me crazy and it's getting me downright depressed.

I cant invite friends, because they're not properly geared with a Delve weapon yet and the whole alliance will -LITERALLY- tell you to kick that person. If you refuse (even when said person is a COR or a healer, i mean come on, rediculous) the alliance will fall apart. People will shout and scream at you when you're doing Ceizak (20k entry item for 3000-4000 points) instead of Morimar (200k entry item, which i'm using to get them in for no charge, for maybe 3500-4500 points), when it's just not worth the 10x pricetag.

And i cant even count the times anymore when someone took over my runs, complained endlessly that "they were doing so much better last time with X job and Y job" calling me all sorts of things for the blaspemy that is inviting a third WHM to keep the Paladins cured.

SE really needs to change things. I have to exclude the people i care for. The girl i cared for joined a Delve LS and those elitist pricks are making me kick certain people when they are in my alliance or else she would get into trouble with them... it's really ruining everything that was once fun about this game.

I dont care how much SE has to nerf everything into oblivion. I just want the voidwatch feeling of picking up strangers and friends and having fun with them again, not this whole "you need to have X and Y, and maybe Z if you want to be able to contribute". It's unrealistic for people to desire such things, only breeds elitism and is really getting me on the verge of quitting this game :/

____________________________
[XI] Surivere of Valefor
[XIV] Sir Surian Bedivere of Behemoth
http://na.finalfantasyxiv.com/lodestone/character/2401553/
#2 May 18 2013 at 5:29 AM Rating: Good
**
763 posts
Yeah I hate that about delve. I am waiting until my linkshell is ready, then we'll do it as a cohesive unit.. well-geared or not.. and we won't take those elitist pricks who try and tell me (us) what to do.

Mokatu
#3 May 18 2013 at 5:38 AM Rating: Decent
The All Knowing
Avatar
*****
10,265 posts
I got kicked as a RDM because I wasn't "hasting". Beside the fact that my haste doesn't override slow (which they were on the majority of the time), I was cure bombing the party and literally keeping people alive.
#4 May 18 2013 at 6:24 AM Rating: Good
This is unfortunate to see after resubbing and buying the seeker bundle.
#5 May 18 2013 at 6:52 AM Rating: Excellent
Ken Burton's Reject
*****
12,834 posts
Welcome to why we had server closures to start with.

Eventually the gap got so large, people quit. Then the endgamers quit because they'd done it all, and there wasn't the influx of new blood anymore. I'm sorry that you are experiencing all that crap, but sadly I don't really have any advice to help. I'd say build your own LS, but these days people will just bail for shout groups.
____________________________
Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/pawkeshup
YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/pawkeshup
Twitch: http://www.twitch.tv/pawkeshup
Blog: http://pawkeshup.blogspot.com
Olorinus the Ludicrous wrote:
The idea of old school is way more interesting than the reality
#6 May 18 2013 at 7:31 AM Rating: Excellent
**
262 posts
I haven't actually tried Delve yet and this is the main reason why. I have really bad social anxiety and shout groups are the worst thing for it, I just can't deal with elitist, judgemental types at all. I've actually been too scared to respond to shouts so far and I don't think my LS has enough people interested in doing it to attempt this content without shout groups.

If something isn't done about this, I don't know how much longer I can play without it seeming pointless.
____________________________
Heybunny & Valfreyja: Leviathan server | PerAsperaAdAstra LS
Married to Blackraven October 2005 ^^
#7 May 18 2013 at 9:20 AM Rating: Good
***
1,778 posts
I said it before in my "New Direction" thread but will say it again.

Delve is going to kill this game, mark my ******* words.
#8 May 18 2013 at 9:45 AM Rating: Excellent
Ken Burton's Reject
*****
12,834 posts
Tatham wrote:
I said it before in my "New Direction" thread but will say it again.

Delve is going to kill this game, mark my @#%^ing words.
Delve will just help, it's the community that will kill it.

Delve, as content, isn't terrible. Yes, it's too much, too soon. Yes, abandonment of older weapons with such large investments is bad. But really the worst thing here is the move back to alliance content. I totally agree with your thread. I just wish the developers did too.
____________________________
Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/pawkeshup
YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/pawkeshup
Twitch: http://www.twitch.tv/pawkeshup
Blog: http://pawkeshup.blogspot.com
Olorinus the Ludicrous wrote:
The idea of old school is way more interesting than the reality
#9 May 18 2013 at 9:49 AM Rating: Good
***
1,677 posts
Let my account expire by accident last month or so... not really wanting to pay up after reading all this delve crap lol
#10 May 18 2013 at 10:37 AM Rating: Excellent
***
2,890 posts
Pawkeshup, Averter of the Apocalypse wrote:
Tatham wrote:
I said it before in my "New Direction" thread but will say it again.

Delve is going to kill this game, mark my @#%^ing words.
Delve will just help, it's the community that will kill it.

Delve, as content, isn't terrible. Yes, it's too much, too soon. Yes, abandonment of older weapons with such large investments is bad. But really the worst thing here is the move back to alliance content. I totally agree with your thread. I just wish the developers did too.


Well not so much back to alliance content but back to extremely specific setups with high requirements to participate. High end players that are capable of doing these things tend not to help lower less capable players and you end up with a catch 22 situation. Eventually it creates a huge gap in player capability and that's when people quit in mass's because as much as the high end guys like to hear trumpets sound when they log on, the majority of the activity on the server is generated by the casual players due to sheer volume.
#11 May 18 2013 at 11:31 AM Rating: Excellent
**
832 posts
I say kick the complainers, especially if they are a dime a dozen DD for being [explicitive] morons. Giving into their illogical demands(x person doesn't have a delve weapon kick them) just perpetuates their demands when people keep listening to them.
#12 May 18 2013 at 11:59 AM Rating: Excellent
Ken Burton's Reject
*****
12,834 posts
Easier said than done.

I ran an LS for a good amount of time, and while kicking the whiners out of an event seems like a great idea, the whiner normally has friends. Or if you kick, say, the WHM, the group may implode because now they have to wait for another healer. Or if that DD was likely going to be the source of a lot of your damage, people will likely bail and hope for another alliance.

In the end, in a perfect world, they would get their just desserts. In reality, the whiners who try to take over these runs likely get all the stuff they ever want.
____________________________
Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/pawkeshup
YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/pawkeshup
Twitch: http://www.twitch.tv/pawkeshup
Blog: http://pawkeshup.blogspot.com
Olorinus the Ludicrous wrote:
The idea of old school is way more interesting than the reality
#13 May 18 2013 at 12:51 PM Rating: Excellent
Avatar
*
126 posts
sad but elitist/selfish people (in a ls sadly.... and outside) will always take the fun away.
se should have known better, any normal player could have seen it coming, but they just cant seem to get past 1 train of thought.

tbh i dont think they are capable anymore to.

a shame really. :(
____________________________
http://i.imgur.com/FokEtHo.png
#14 May 18 2013 at 12:55 PM Rating: Good
**
983 posts
If you invite 17 people to an event that you aren't an expert at, there's a pretty good chance one of them will be better than you. As such, there are often players in the alliance that are better at setting up the alliance than the shout-leader. For instance, Delve groups that get <5000 Plasm per run right now are doing it wrong and are poorly constructed. Delve groups that get 5000-6000 are pretty normal. Groups that get >6000 are good.

People generally are not going to complain if you construct a group capable of getting 5000-6000 Plasm, even if they're used to getting >6000. However, they can often see problems in the alliance's structure or the people being invited that will move the group down below 5000. For instance, inviting a paladin that can't tank will result in the NMs aggroing people, causing deaths, and ultimately a bad Plasm yield for the run. That's a waste of 45 minutes compared to getting someone that can tank. If someone that recognizes the requirements sees you inviting two of your best buddies who are PLD4lyfers with Weathering Shields and ****** gear, they might as well leave the party and go do something else. A nice personality and sunny disposition can't hold monsters for 45 minutes. If they see 6 DDs invited, 4 of whom are known to be terrible (yet personable!), they might as well leave the party and go do something else in FFXI or RL. It's not fun to join groups that make simple, brainless tasks like farming Plasm difficult, even if it means that you aren't spending those 45 minutes farming Plasm (while fleeing from NMs in the company of dead-yet-pleasant paladins, for instance).

SE themselves has said that some people are not currently qualified to do Delve, and encouraged them to pursue Skirmish, Salvage v2, and so on. They even made these events all easier as well to encourage participation. Well-augmented Skirmish weapons are about as good as RME weapons, so even if people don't want to level BRD, WHM, or COR then SE has still made a path for them. Unlike any time before in FFXI's history, SE is releasing events that are meant to be done in series instead of in parallel. I think it's a stupid move that they will come to regret and there are still ways to bypass this structure (like leveling a mage job), but this is how they have chosen to make the content and I don't feel too bad enforcing the designed norms.
#15 May 18 2013 at 1:29 PM Rating: Excellent
Almalieque wrote:
I got kicked as a RDM because I wasn't "hasting". Beside the fact that my haste doesn't override slow (which they were on the majority of the time), I was cure bombing the party and literally keeping people alive.


If it's a slow from Filamented Hold, you won't be able to overwrite it with Haste, but if it's from Sticky Thread you would. As someone that's went in there as a healer a few times, it's really not hard to Erase them when they get hit with Filamented Hold, otherwise you could just keep with a normal Haste rotation and it'd be fine.

I don't know how it is on other servers, but on Lakshmi you certainly don't need to be these top notch players to get into shout groups. I'd venture to say that the majority of the people that come to shout groups are "mediocre", and are content with modest levels of plasm in the end. The bosses are a different story, and are predominantly going to be linkshell groups only, but in general, there's not that huge divide between great players and subpar ones on my server in terms of getting into Delve runs.
____________________________
Lady Jinte wrote:

Vlorsutes' Negotiation Skill rises 0.2 points
Vlorsutes' Observant Parent Skill rises 0.3 points
Vlorsutes' Argument Diffusing Skill rises 0.1 points

#16 May 18 2013 at 1:33 PM Rating: Good
*
52 posts
Byrthnoth wrote:


SE themselves has said that some people are not currently qualified to do Delve, and encouraged them to pursue Skirmish, Salvage v2, and so on. They even made these events all easier as well to encourage participation. Well-augmented Skirmish weapons are about as good as RME weapons, so even if people don't want to level BRD, WHM, or COR then SE has still made a path for them. Unlike any time before in FFXI's history, SE is releasing events that are meant to be done in series instead of in parallel. I think it's a stupid move that they will come to regret and there are still ways to bypass this structure (like leveling a mage job), but this is how they have chosen to make the content and I don't feel too bad enforcing the designed norms.



that would be a valid path, if the exact same types of elitists pricks ruining delve weren't ruining all those other events you listed
#17 May 18 2013 at 1:45 PM Rating: Default
Avatar
****
4,864 posts
Professor Shock Vlorsutes wrote:

I don't know how it is on other servers, but on Lakshmi you certainly don't need to be these top notch players to get into shout groups. I'd venture to say that the majority of the people that come to shout groups are "mediocre", and are content with modest levels of plasm in the end. The bosses are a different story, and are predominantly going to be linkshell groups only, but in general, there's not that huge divide between great players and subpar ones on my server in terms of getting into Delve runs.


This is how it is on Carbuncle too. Sorry to the OP's friend that got yelled at, but that was because the other person was mean, not because they were an elitist. Let's stop pretending that striving for good gear makes you a bad person. It doesn't anymore than someone who is too casual to care about their group responsibilities in an MMO seriously.
____________________________
Carbuncle


#18 May 18 2013 at 2:57 PM Rating: Good
Scholar
Avatar
****
6,268 posts
You have to have completed a Wildskeeper Reive to be able to initiate Fractures, so even being in the leader position to have the opportunity not be an exclusionary elitist **** involves completing content only currently cleared by exclusionary elitist ******

Thus Wildskeeper Reive clears are why Delve is a circlejerk, not Delve itself.
____________________________
I've seen things you people wouldn't believe. Airships on fire off the shoulder of Bahamut. I watched Scapula Beams glitter in the dark near the Three Mage Gate...

Nilatai wrote:
Vlorsutes wrote:
There's always...not trolling him?

You're new here, aren't you?
#19 May 18 2013 at 3:46 PM Rating: Decent
TheBarrister wrote:
Professor Shock Vlorsutes wrote:

I don't know how it is on other servers, but on Lakshmi you certainly don't need to be these top notch players to get into shout groups. I'd venture to say that the majority of the people that come to shout groups are "mediocre", and are content with modest levels of plasm in the end. The bosses are a different story, and are predominantly going to be linkshell groups only, but in general, there's not that huge divide between great players and subpar ones on my server in terms of getting into Delve runs.


This is how it is on Carbuncle too. Sorry to the OP's friend that got yelled at, but that was because the other person was mean, not because they were an elitist. Let's stop pretending that striving for good gear makes you a bad person. It doesn't anymore than someone who is too casual to care about their group responsibilities in an MMO seriously.

When most people refer to elitist they are referring to this definition combination

Closest definition of elite as used here:
Quote:
a group of persons who by virtue of position or education exercise much power or influence


The closest "-ist" applied to elite by most people
webster wrote:
one that adheres to or advocates a (specified) doctrine or system or code of behavior <socialist> <royalist> <hedonist> or that of a (specified) individual


Not

The closest "-ist" definition you preferred implied.
Quote:
one that specializes in a (specified) art or science or skill <geologist> <ventriloquist>



However both of you are right in the slang use of the word elitist in it's base form broken down.(Since apparently it's not recognize as a word by Webster O.o)
#20 May 18 2013 at 4:01 PM Rating: Excellent
Sage
**
670 posts
Sir mokatu wrote:
Yeah I hate that about delve. I am waiting until my linkshell is ready, then we'll do it as a cohesive unit.. well-geared or not.. and we won't take those elitist pricks who try and tell me (us) what to do.

Mokatu

Good luck with that. I'm this close to dumping me linkpearl because of what Delve has done. We are were a casual social shell. Groups would just throw something together and go do it. But recently, the more vocal members have been shouting for Delve weapons only (were r/m/e but now that hey have delve weapons, that what they want). In shell chat, they are bashing those without X pieces of gear. It has gone from a friendly place to hang out to a place where they badmouth "bad" players.
#21 May 18 2013 at 4:10 PM Rating: Good
Scholar
Avatar
*****
12,820 posts
xantav wrote:
Sir mokatu wrote:
Yeah I hate that about delve. I am waiting until my linkshell is ready, then we'll do it as a cohesive unit.. well-geared or not.. and we won't take those elitist pricks who try and tell me (us) what to do.

Mokatu

Good luck with that. I'm this close to dumping me linkpearl because of what Delve has done. We are were a casual social shell. Groups would just throw something together and go do it. But recently, the more vocal members have been shouting for Delve weapons only (were r/m/e but now that hey have delve weapons, that what they want). In shell chat, they are bashing those without X pieces of gear. It has gone from a friendly place to hang out to a place where they badmouth "bad" players.


Yep, that's why as much as I have little faith in it, I can't wait for ARR. XI community has just gone to ****.
____________________________

#22 May 18 2013 at 4:27 PM Rating: Excellent
***
1,778 posts
Byrthnoth wrote:
SE themselves has said that some people are not currently qualified to do Delve, and encouraged them to pursue Skirmish, Salvage v2, and so on. They even made these events all easier as well to encourage participation. Well-augmented Skirmish weapons are about as good as RME weapons, so even if people don't want to level BRD, WHM, or COR then SE has still made a path for them. Unlike any time before in FFXI's history, SE is releasing events that are meant to be done in series instead of in parallel. I think it's a stupid move that they will come to regret and there are still ways to bypass this structure (like leveling a mage job), but this is how they have chosen to make the content and I don't feel too bad enforcing the designed norms.


No, they haven't.
If you don't have a Lv99 Relic/Emp/Mythic/Delve weapon you're not getting invited, end of.

Been rejected from three parties now because I didn't have a Delve weapon but do have Armageddon Lv90... and Corsair.
**** like this is why I'm unsubbing when my next cycle is through.
They've completely shattered the working paradigm of easily-accessible content in smaller numbers for larger scale alliance and full linkshell content... when they game is just turning 11 years old and the playerbase is inevitably going to start shrinking again.
Absolutely idiotic move.

Oh, and the reason Skirmish triggers are now going for so cheap on the Auction Houses?
Because everyone knows the rewards are nowhere near as good as Delve, they've killed their own ******* content within a month when almost nobody had a chance to try it due to their own technical **** up.

Apologies if this came across as somewhat malicious against you.
#23 May 18 2013 at 4:47 PM Rating: Excellent
***
3,777 posts
Perhaps the most interesting (and scary) thing to think about is that Delve is the first tier of end game content designed to build upon existing equipment (salvage II, limbus II, bayld gear and skirmish weapons). If players are having this much of a problem completing the first tier, what will things be like when they release the second tier that requires delve equipment to complete, especially if delve is the new equivalent of salvage II limbus etc gear and the tier 2 rewards are the new delve gear. It could be just as hard to complete tier II with fully geared delve equips as delve is with basic equipment. This trend could continue forever, but if it progresses in the same fashion people will have killed each other before tier III is released.
____________________________
[ffxisig]56619[/ffxisig]

There are 10 kinds of people in the world. Those who understand binary, and those who don't.
#24 May 18 2013 at 5:13 PM Rating: Excellent
***
1,778 posts
The ONLY way that I can see the playing field being even somewhat leveled and made more accessible is if the next round of Skirmish areas produce rewards that directly rival that of Delve.
Crobaci with maximum augments can provide something like DMG:160 STR+10 Weapon Skill Damage+10%.
Decent, but nowhere near as good as Bereaver.

Skirmish is actually a pretty good, if repetitive at times, system that can be easily completed by a competent group of 5-6 people.
#25 May 18 2013 at 8:35 PM Rating: Excellent
****
5,684 posts
Tatham wrote:
Oh, and the reason Skirmish triggers are now going for so cheap on the Auction Houses?
Because everyone knows the rewards are nowhere near as good as Delve, they've killed their own @#%^ing content within a month when almost nobody had a chance to try it due to their own technical @#%^ up.
Skirmish pops also drop left and right from Reives now. So it's not just simply a decrease in demand, but a huge increase in supply as well.
#26 May 18 2013 at 8:47 PM Rating: Decent
**
983 posts
Tatham wrote:
Byrthnoth wrote:
SE themselves has said that some people are not currently qualified to do Delve, and encouraged them to pursue Skirmish, Salvage v2, and so on. They even made these events all easier as well to encourage participation. Well-augmented Skirmish weapons are about as good as RME weapons, so even if people don't want to level BRD, WHM, or COR then SE has still made a path for them. Unlike any time before in FFXI's history, SE is releasing events that are meant to be done in series instead of in parallel. I think it's a stupid move that they will come to regret and there are still ways to bypass this structure (like leveling a mage job), but this is how they have chosen to make the content and I don't feel too bad enforcing the designed norms.


No, they haven't.

...

Apologies if this came across as somewhat malicious against you.


Don't worry bro. I don't care about you and they explicitly have said that.
« Previous 1 2 3 4 5 6 7
Reply To Thread

Colors Smileys Quote OriginalQuote Checked Help

 

Recent Visitors: 363 All times are in CST
Anonymous Guests (363)