TheBarrister wrote:
Also, tell me where were you during the 2003-2011 era when the rate of "new changes" to the game was comparatively non-existent. Did you clamor for Sky, Ground King, Dynamis, and Limbus to be replaced? How about the nearly 2 years of lack of changes to the game that were known as WoTG? That's the argument if you want to respond to something I'm saying.
I had quit about one year after our entire linkshell acquired nearly everything sky had to offer. The lack of change in the game is (and should be, in an MMO) more than enough reason to stop paying for a game (not playing, but paying - I still enjoyed the company of old friends, but at some point you need to put a value on your dollar).
I've been an on-again off-again player for many years because of the hills-and-valleys FFXI has had to offer when it comes to interesting new content, and though I am a huge fan of the game (and series in general) I won't throw money at it for the sake of throwing money at it. It is in the game's best interest for everyone to take this approach, as paying to play a game you don't find enjoyable just breeds a less enjoyable game (and a waste of what could otherwise be time spent actually enjoying something).
There's this old movie (I forget exactly what it it's called, I watched it like 15 years ago) where ape-men invade earth and cage up / enslave the humans. In an attempt to monitor the humans and learn what they like, they set one free. The man who was set free thinks he has a chance to escape, so he hides in the dark corners of hallways and despite stores of food being nearby, he opts to kill and eat a rat so the invaders don't catch him stealing their food. The end result is that all the humans are fed rats because the invaders are lead to believe that's what humans want, afterall, when set free, that's what they went for.
What I'm getting at is that MMO's are largely a "lets see what the people like and cater to it" sort of experiment, so when people do these three year crazy-rediculous grinds for items, yes, it's likely that they will allow those items to be upgraded, because they cater to what they see players doing, but they will also introduce more / similar grinding because after-all, that's what people must like! If you want to see change you have to opt to "not" participate in these sort of things. That sometimes means taking a break from the game, choosing to do something else in the game, or playing another game all together.
When I first started this game I was a teenager and I whined about how rediculous it was to do some of the earlier limit break quests... but times have changed and generally speaking you won't really hear me ******** about difficulty in the game anymore, because it pretty much has no difficulty. However, you will see me plead for change that I believe will better the game.
As far as feeling sorry for people... I look forward to any moment I get to spend with my wife or dog or friends after work, and any moment I get to spend playing games with those same people, but if someone chooses a path of near-solitude for a tremendous amount of time for the sake of bettering only themselves, then is so prideful that they come in to boast and complain about how much work they did on their own to be better than everyone else... I DO feel sorry for them... but not in the way that you are hoping and pleading for, instead I am sad for you in the sense that I think "wow, that guy's priorities are REALLY messed up... I hope his personal life takes a change for the better".