If you want to come to Shiva, or transfer to Shiva, the DiamondKnights Linkshell is always busy, and always bustling with new and returning people. We have twice-a-week Nyzul Isle runs, and we will be doing Abyssea zone bosses soon. In the meantime for events, people are helping with just about anything. Also, events are not a requirement, however we do schedule events based upon the more popular goals of the linkshell whole. We set a day and time for it, then go and get it done.
Sound like a linkshell for you? Shiva is far from dead!