Whats a good server to play on now adays? im looking for something possibly friendly:D
If you can be more specific as to what you mean by "a good server", you'll probably get a better answer.
I play on Lakshmi, and if you post in the server forum there, I do know there's a person that runs a linkshell for new & returning players.
I would also advise you to read Pawkeshup's sticky at the top of the General forum page for new & returning players. It's a bit dated, but still has good info.