I was in a party last night in Qufim and there was a brief squabble over who should pull. I was told that thieves steal, not pull, so our level 20 war went out to pull using provoke. Rather than get indignant, I figured it was less risk to me and didn't really matter.
Our warrior died in the first battle because he took 2 crits on the way back.
I asked politely for the chance to prove myself, and I was granted that very chance. So I went to work, pulling with my beloved 5 Pulling Macro Set.
We chained faster than ever before. And thanks to a series of consecutive level ups, we were able to chain ITs together at one point because people were at full HP/MP from the level, getting up to 240 xp from an IT Snipper. Hell, at one point, the ranger we were with admitted I was a better puller, which blew my mind (although I am a ranger in training).
The moral of the story? Don't pull with Provoke. No, wait, that's not it. Don't get mad if someone tells you to do something other than what you're good at. Just wait for your chance to shine, and show them what you're good at without griping. Nobody likes a whiner.