i quit eq last year after playing for 3. it was my first mmorpg and it gave me the WOW factor. im sure if you try this, you will get the same thing, although, it wont be as good as it used to be. with the neverending expansions from SOE, trying to keep the game alive and the horrible tech support the game has gone down in my book. the golden age of EQ is over. another thing is that the game is a constant exp grind. the quests are good, and crafting is ok, but 75% of your time will be exp grinding. not to mention that all the old areas are rarely used, and there is a number of 60+ that are snooty and think that they are better than everyone else. (there are nice ones too)also, having not up to par graphics. and not to mention the BS that SOE has on their website, "the #1 mmorpg in the world" wtf? 500,000 users, and lineage has over 2,000,000 in korea alone.
you can pick this, as every game has its flaws, but i feel that other games have better justice.
for instance, DAOC was a good game, it didnt keep me interested as long as eq, but it wasnt a constant exp grind. there was more nice people in the game than in eq, in fact i think i rarely ran into a bad person, but in eq i ran into several every day. alliance system gives a good community and bg's are fun. (IMO, end game rvr is lacking and relic raids are pointless)
ffxi(currently playing) is a good game for broad class choices, good melee system, great quests/missions. from what ive played, i would recommend this. the only things wrong is ui(setup so ps2 usable) and lack of char customization(armor kinda looks same, but it cuts down to almost 0 lag)
there are future games coming out that might interest you, including: World of Warcarft, Everquest 2, lineage 2(need a good comp for this one), dark n' light. a few more that i havent mentioned, but these are the biggies.
hope i have helped you in your decision.